Monday, November 16, 2009

A weekend to remember




My bride of 26 yrs and I celebrated that special day in November with dinner out, on the evening of the 5th and then with a special weekend away @ Sandy Cove inspired, encouraged, challenged, and deeply blessed by the Lord thru the ministry of Steve and Annie Chapman. Below are a few photos from the weekend that I trust you will enjoy and if there is one or two things i can share as 'take aways' from the weekend to challenge and encourage you (especially you men ) it would be these: every relationship in your life flows out of your relationship with God thru Jesus Christ. second to that dynamic is the reality that stress/conflict/disorder in your home is at least influenced if not a direct result of the state of your relationship with your wife, and the degree to which you are loving her as Christ loves His Bride. yeah, stings me too!


The happy couple by His grace

He gave us a special sunset moment


This prayer was answered



Yeah, now is when it's get hard...back to 'real' life


The 'sign' on our door. We are currently studying Isaiah and Gal.2:20 is my 'life verse'
We had reservations at a nearby hotel, then received a call friday afternoon that they had a last minute cancellation at the lodge. God prepared this for us, and made sure we recognized His hand in it all !!
Beautiful spot on the Bay


Isn't she cute??!!


A unique 'lovers lane'?! sort of...



Looking back toward the shore
His beauty was evident all around

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Where did the summer go?



I love the message of this song! Enjoy this 6 minute video as I work on the next post expected to be an update from our Weekend Away at Sandy Cove with Steve and Annie Chapman. Glorious!



Friday, July 17, 2009

Day by Day by Grace


First of all, i love the title. Secondly it is so brief, so clear, so true. It's the way God intends us to live, it is also the title of a daily devotional I receive in my email each day and I decided to share today's with you. When you have a minute, i invite you to visit Blue Letter Bible dot com and subscribe to the devotional(s) that interest you. For now, enjoy and be encouraged/challenged by the words below. Have a blessed day in the Lord.

Day By Day By Grace
Bob Hoekstra
July 17, 2009
Truth to Set Us Free from the Enemy's Bondage
"If you abide in My word, you are My disciples indeed. And you shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free"…that they may know the truth and escape the snare of the devil, having been taken captive by him. (John 8:31-32 and 2 Timothy 2:25-26)

As followers of Jesus Christ, it is so important that we abide in His word. We are called to live in the word of the Lord that we might know His truth. As we embrace God's truth, we are impacted by its liberating power. "The truth shall make you free." One fundamental area where people need spiritual liberation is bondage from the enemy.

The entire realm of unbelieving humanity lies under the binding influence of the evil one. "The whole world lies under the sway of the wicked one" (1 John 5:19). Even those unbelievers who do not accept the truths of God about Satan and sin are nonetheless captivated by him. Consequently, we are to humbly reach out to them with the truth: "in humility correcting those who are in opposition, if God perhaps will grant them repentance, so that they may know the truth, and that they may come to their senses and escape the snare of the devil, having been taken captive by him to do his will." Paul was sent forth to proclaim the gospel truth that offers freedom from such bondage: "to open their eyes and to turn them from darkness to light, and from the power of Satan to God" (Acts 26:18). The testimony of all who believe in the truth of the gospel is this: "He has delivered us from the power of darkness and translated us into the kingdom of the Son of His love" (Colossians 1:13).

The problem of Satan's binding, hindering, restricting influence did not end at salvation. Many saints (though headed for heaven) are still bound in areas of their thinking and behaving. They are still influenced by the enemy's lies. They cannot make the liberating confession of Paul and his missionary team: "we are not ignorant of his [Satan's] devices" (2 Corinthians 2:11). Ignorance of the enemy's tactics will persist in the lives of those who do not know (or will not yield to) God's liberating truth. On the other hand, all who are willing to embrace the truths of God's word will enjoy more and more freedom from the enemy's lies. They will grow in understanding of, and reliance upon, the victorious purposes of Jesus' coming to this earth. "For this purpose the Son of God was manifested, that He might destroy the works of the devil" (1 John 3:8 ).

Dear Lord, I praise You for the liberating truth of Your gospel of grace that delivered me from the enemy's grasp. Now, I need more and more of the liberating truths of Your word that I might not be ignorant of his devious and persistent tactics. Teach me Your truths, in Jesus' name, Amen.
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Monday, June 01, 2009

Leaving Mexico in Triplication

At 3am Sunday May 31, the Prectices, the Reams, and the Goodlings met at the Pemex outside of Los Heroes off the Periferico with a destination in mind and a plan A, B, and C in hand. Cheryl led the way (and Dawn rode with her ) and she carried about 30 boxes of 'stuff' in her pick-up. The caravan was like deja-vu, as the Reams and Goodlings following a Prectice vehicle into Mexico 21 months ago, the difference here was that Neil was not making the drive, nor using his truck, and of course we were driving north this time, not south.

After a quick drop into OXXO for coffee, cokes, cookies and a few Monsters.... and a prayer, we were on our way. God graciously led us around Mexico City without incident ( usually the traffic police look for out of state vehicles to harass seeking a type of bribe- 'multa' or 'mordida') and we made great time to Monterrey which was a plan B overnight stay if we didn't feel up to crossing the boarder once we arrived there. We pulled into the parking lot of the Los Generales buffet and headed in for some well earned food, it was around 3PM ( 12 hours later for those keeping score at home) Upon returning to our vehicles anticipating an uneventful departure from this fine city 'of mountains' Tyler was greeted at his side of the van by a mall security guy on a 4-wheeler, who rattled something off that I couldn't quite hear from the drivers side. "What was that?" I asked Tyler as i sat in the seat and prepared to start the van. " He said we left this window down the whole way while we were in the restaurant, but he watched our truck the whole time we were away so that no one messed with it!" Wow, I have no idea how that window got put down before we went in, but sure enough it was, we had a bunch of pesos as well as bills for tolls in plain view, but nothing was disturbed. When the guy came back around, I waived him over and gave him a nice tip and big grinned 'thank-you'!

Navigating the streets in Mexico is often challenging for a variety of reasons, one being that they often have a variety of patterns or systems of turn lanes, lateral roads, and interesting designs that being an 'outsider' is not obvious at first as to how it works ( did I mention an often lack of signage?) This fine city is no exception and as we are trying to navigate our way back out of the city onto A highway that will take us north thru Nuevo Laredo and across the boarder, we apparently made a turn that isn't allowed. We found that out as a police car comes flying up the lateral beside us and trys to wave the 3 vehicle caravan over, finally successfully the second attempt! There were two officers that interacted with us, the driver was sort of a picture of Sammy Davis Jr. without tap shoes, the other guy was built like a linebacker and actually knew a good deal of English. Sammy Davis collected my license and car papers, as well as Derek Ream's documents, while 'explaining' to us individually what we did wrong and how much trouble we were in. ( this guy spoke really fast! ) After more time had gone by then I felt was necessary or normal ( i couldn't really see what all was happening up front at Cheryl's truck where most of the conversation was happening with the linebacker) I was about to get out of the van when Sammy gets out, comes back and in rapid Spanish says something about his boss saying that if we just pay for our tickets right here right now then they won't have to keep our licenses, car papers, and we won't have to go to the police station tomorrow to pay and retrieve our most necessary items. I said nothing. Partly because I didn't understand half of what he said, mostly because I clearly picked up the context of his offer ' give us cash for our pockets now, and this all goes away real quick like'. That, my friends, is not the way we operate here in Mexico. Some choose to pay and go, to save the time, we choose to take the time and to try to follow the law and principle.

Sammy left and went back to his car more frustrated than he was when he finally got us to pull over initially. 10 minutes later, i decided to walk up to Cheryl's truck and see what was going on. She was on here call phone (having just spoken with Neil, and he with the linebacker, she was now on with their lawyer trying to learn exactly what these guys can and can't do by law) I walked around to the passenger side and Dawn was talking with the linebacker in Spanish and trying to 'explain' what we knew we did, and what we knew we didn't do ( they were now adding a 'going down a one way street the wrong way' charge to the original wrong right hand turn infraction. She introduced me to him as her husband and he greeted me with a hand shake and a respectful pleased to meet you etc.

He then started to explain to me the 'problems' in Spanish and then asked, " do you understand spanish well?" "mas o menos", I replied, "usually menos!" He then started asking me some questions in English. We were interrupted as Cheryl gave her cell to him so that he and the lawyer could talk directly. I am not sure what all was said, but enough for these guys to start to realize that they were 'barking up the wrong tree' here today. He turned back to me and asked, " are you guys Christians?" yes, i said. All of you? yes again. Which one is the pastor or leader of the group? Well, I am sort of a pastor ( by Biblical definition anyway) I replied. ' Well, you sister or friend or whatever she is ( referring to Cheryl ) isn't doing right. She isn't right by not giving us here license and papers. It's wrong of her." Well, I said, our licenses are actually the property of the USA and you can't keep them." " I need something to hold to ensure that you will come back and pay the fine." He said a few words in Spanish, I didn't catch it. Looked me in the eye and said, " you guys can go. I don't need her papers, you can have yours back, there is no ticket, no infraction, nothing. God bless you guys, just go" At this point Derek and I asked for our papers, that Sammy had in the cruiser, and we walked there with the linebacker. As he handed us our papers, I tried once again, in Spanish, to explain that all we want to do is what is right. If we broke the law we want to pay the proper fine, the proper way, but we would sure like to leave Monterrey today and get to the boarder. He said " the only way to do that is to pay with cash, right now, God bless you guys, bye" Because he knew full well by that point that we were not going to pay a mordida and if we pushed the issue and demanded to see his boss that he could loose his job because the way he had conducted himself in trying to 'scare' us into a pay-off.

That incident cost us an extra hour, and a critical hour of daylight, but again God was so gracious as these guys returned after speeding away initially, to give us an escort and lead us out of town. We safely made it to the boarder, thru customs/immigration, a long line of traffic on the bridge into the US, and wearily hit our beds in our hotel in Laredo around 11:30PM!

What a day, but what examples of the Lord's hand and care and attention to every detail as we made our way 'out of Mexico' this last day of May 2009. We were once again reminded of this: Vaya con Dios o es mejor no vas ( go with God or it's better you don't go )

Sunday, May 03, 2009

The Success Syndrome


When we are back in the US over the holidays, and good friend and brother, Dave Young, gave me a book as a gift. The book is 'Knowing God's purpose for Your Life' Daily Devotional by JI Packer. What a blessing it has turned out to be. This book is a compilation of snippets from other books Mr. Packer has written over the years and today I would like to share two entries that both come from the same book; A Passion for Faithfulness, and were devotionals dated April 29, and April 30. Trust you will be challenged and blessed by these words much as i have been:

April 29
Ecclesiastes 11:6In the morning sow your seed, and at eveningA)">(A) withhold not your hand, for you do not know which will prosper, this or that, or whether both alike will be good.

The success syndrome is an infection that has spread right through the whole Western world, so that its prevalence among Christian people, though distressing, is hardly surprising. The world's idea that everyone, from childhood up, should be able to succeed at all times in measurable ways, and that it is a great disgrace not to, hangs over the Christian community like a pall of acrid smoke; and if the spiritual counterpart of agonized coughing, lung pain, and shortness of breath should result, no one should be surprised. Those who want to become Christ's agents in building His Church now feel they have to have track records that show them as successes in everything to which they have ever put their hand. So the impostors have a field day: anything that in the short term looks like triumph is equated with personal success, and anything that in the short term that looks like disaster is seen as failure. Successful-looking performance at all costs becomes the goal, and unreality creeps into people's view of themselves as a result.
***The Church is built by obedience, not performance***

April 30
Galatians 6:9AndA)">(A) let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap,B)">(B) if we do not give up.

Our calling is not to success but to faithfulness, whatever our role in the Body of Christ. Christ will build His Church, using us as He wills, in ways that involve the appearance of triumph and disaster over and over again. Our part is not to let either appearance fool us, but to maintain an unflinching fidelity to the particular tasks and roles we know we have been given to fulfill, all for the honoring and pleasing of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit, who by their joint action are carrying forward the entire building process. Such faithfulness--the grace of zealously keeping on weather discouraged or encouraged, with a humility that stays constant when encouraged no less than when discouraged--is a lesson that we shall only ever learn through divine help, help that is found by keeping close to Jesus Christ.
***God calls the Church to faithfulness, with humility.***

A Few questions I would like to pose based on the above challenges:
  • Let's evaluate our definition of success today. Does it line up with God's?
  • Is our success or failure in light of a temporal or eternal view?
  • What would God, as I pray Psalm 139:23,24, have me confess and repent of regarding my view of success in my life and the way I see it in others?